How to deal with his affire and a child?
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How to deal with his affire and a child?
| Tue, 02-03-2004 - 1:16pm |
Hello im new here well on Sat I found out that my husband of 3 years has being cheating on me and now I found out that the other woman is going to have his child in July. The hardest part is we all ready have 4 kids and I just got my tubes tied and now this.I still love him but i think the girl will use this baby to get closer to my husband he is telling me now that he is not sure what he wants so im giving him space to figure it out but I feel like the other women waiting to see if he chooses me or her we have bein together for 7 years and he has known her for what 6 months. I hate her because she knew he was married and still talked to him. she told me that she has not been with a man since her sons dad and that was 3 years ago but she meet my man in Sept. and what in Oct she found out she is going to have a baby and my man is the daddy. I guess! my heart is broken and I don't know what to do he was suppost to be my forever. If you guys have any input or advice please give I really need it thank you

Try posting on the Betrayed Spouse Support Board as some of them have been through this I'm sure.
Carrie
I don't have any advice for you, just sympathy. I hope you have a good support system - family, friends, pastor, counselor - that can help you and your kids through this.
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'i think the girl will use this baby to get closer to my husband ...I hate her because she knew he was married and still talked to him. '
Unfortunately, I think she is already close enough. Your husband has to take responsibility too. She will probably ask for financial help. She does deserve the help but I am sorry for what you are going through. Did he tell you that he is emotionally tied to her?
I hope you find a way to deal with this. Maybe marriage counseling will help if you both decide to stay in the marriage.