How do I choose between the 2?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2008
How do I choose between the 2?
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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 1:54pm
I married my daughter's father who had been away for 5 years in prison right after I broke up with my son's father. We got married 3 months after the break up. 2 weeks after our court house wedding he was arrested yet again and has been there for a year now. Recently my son's father has come back into the picture and we are spending a lot of time together. And he wants us to get back together. My husband is a great father and provider and lover when he is home. But he don't know me. All he knows is how I use to be 5 years ago. And I have changed a lot since then. He is
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 01-28-2008 - 1:57pm

Welcome to the board jakeytia,


In my opinion, you shouldn't be with either one of these men. Just because they are the fathers of your children doesn't mean that you have to be with one of them. There are other men out there.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 01-28-2008 - 3:18pm

Do not let an abusive controlling man near your sons. You have the responsibiliity of putting them first and keeping them safe. If you are having trouble choosing then that only means that neither is right for you. How about staying single for awhile and contrating on your kids?

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Mon, 01-28-2008 - 3:26pm
Why do you have to choose either?

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