How do I confront him about his cheating

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2008
How do I confront him about his cheating
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Tue, 04-01-2008 - 1:33pm

First I would like to thank everyone who replyed to my last post-(He doesnt know that I know he is cheating). I found all of your thoughts and helpful words of advice to be very eye opening. I have done alot of soul searching and now I have decided that I cant keep living this lie...

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 1:48pm
I think the best way to do it is just to come right out and tell him that you know he is cheating because of blah, blah, and that you would like to talk about what is going on and if he wants to try and work things out.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-14-2008
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 2:39pm
IF YOU COME RIGHT OUT & ACCUSE HIM OF CHEATING OF CORSE HE'S GOING TO GET DEFENSIVE. JUST SIT DOWN WITH HIM & LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU BOTH NEED TO TALK ABOUT A SERIOUS MATTER THAT HAS CAME TO YOUR ATTENTION. DONT SAY "I KNOW YOURE CHEATING." INSTEAD, ASK HIM
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 3:23pm

Here's your previous post: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlrelationsh&msg=30620.1


::But with Shane I dont know how to do it... I think that I could forgive him and want try to work things out between us, that is