How do I fix this?
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How do I fix this?
| Sun, 01-04-2004 - 1:59am |
I am twenty-one and I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We've been living together for about six months. We have had our problems, but for the most part our relationship has been wonderful. However, about a month ago I started gettting irrationally jealous when he would talk to other women. It got to the point that he couldn't even mention a girl without me freaking out. On new years eve we went out with a couple friends and I got so upset that he was talking to other girls at the other end of the bar that I cried and caused a scene. The next morning I woke up and realized that my jealousy was out of control and I was going to take steps to control it from then on. The problem is, he is still really mad about the way I have been for the last month and is actually having doubts about whether or not he wants to be with me or not. I try to talk to him about it but he's becoming more and more distant. I don't know what to do. How can I help him get over the anger he has toward me for being irrational for so long?

Did you get to the heart of why this came on so strong? Are you going to therapy?
Also, he's been doing alot more activities with his single friends and taking more interest in girls lately. Do you think this is a reaction to the way i treated him? And how should I deal with it?