how do i get him to admit
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how do i get him to admit
| Wed, 05-26-2004 - 12:55pm |
I HAVE KNOWN ABOUT A ONE NIGHT STAND MY HUSBAND HAD A FEW YEARS AGO. HE DOES'NT KNOW I KNOW. HOW DO I GET HIM TO ADMIT THIS TO ME? I KNOW IT IS THE ROOT OF OUR RELASHONSHIP PROBLEMS. I MEAN HIS GUILT AND MY DISTRUST. PLEASE HELP

You want him to admit it. Why? It changes nothing...you won't leave if he does, you won't leave if you know and he doesn't....it'll change nothing...and you'll NEVER get him to admit it without telling him "it will change nothing". Which would be a lie - because the second that you say "I know about _____, just admit it" - that statement has changed everything!
Erin
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Carrie
You have no choice but to tell him what you know. And then the two of you will have to go to counseling to work it out. You could become much stronger in the process. But it won't be easy at first I am sure.
Don't give up - it is worth a try to save your marriage.
I have found a lot of good stuff here:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com
Good luck.