how do i get him back?

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Registered: 03-26-2004
how do i get him back?
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Fri, 03-26-2004 - 5:04pm
Here is my dilemma…….what ever advice you can give would be great! My boyfriend of almost two years and I recently broke up over a little fight. He was the one to break it off with me because it was too stressful for him always having little fights about pointless stuff. The first year and 8 months of your relationship was amazing and I have never felt happier with someone, not to mention we never got fought with each other. In the last month we probably had more fights than in the rest of our relationship combined. In the end I think we both gave up after the first few fights and decided there wasn’t a point in trying anymore. In the beginning I was happy that he had ended it, but within these last weeks I have realized that I want to be with him now more than ever before. I want to give him space and time, but I also want to tell him how I feel to see if there is a chance we can try and make this work once again. Another problem is I have no idea how exactly he feels this point, because when he left he didn’t give much of an explanation. I asked if there was another girl and his response was “there won’t be another girl for a long time.” I really don’t know what to make of this comment either. How should I approach this situation in trying to get him back, so I don’t seem obsessive, but to show him I know we can make this work

Thanks for your help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2004
Fri, 03-26-2004 - 6:29pm
hi,

i'm kinda have the same problem what i would do is try to talk to him and just let him know how u feel and see what he says!