how do i know?

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Registered: 03-17-2004
how do i know?
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Tue, 05-11-2004 - 9:27pm
How do I know if he wants me back? Do guys really take a long time to actually tell if they want you back? I'd like to know how I would know when he does because my ex is kinda sending some signals that me might want me back, like inviting me over his house and telling me that he would come to visit me at work or wanting me to call him. But, seriously, is this going to take a while???



blondebeauty03

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Registered: 05-06-2004
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:01pm
Ok again I think you are obsessing to much. It sounds to me like you really don't care if he wants you back or not. And if you do really care, then move on start talking with someone else. If he realizes he wants you back before you've moved on to someone else, then great. If not he's the one out of luck because you will be moved on with someone else you like and he will be left alone. And if this happens you probably won't even care whether or not he wants you because you've got someone better. You will just have the satisfaction of knowing that he now knows what he lost.
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Registered: 07-31-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:53pm
I don't know the background on the situation, but why wait for him? Move on, enjoy yourself, date other guys. And if he wants you back, and he says so, work it out then if you are still interested. If you've moved on, and he is then not interested, would the wait been worth it anyway?

 

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