how do i know if he will come back

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2004
how do i know if he will come back
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Tue, 06-29-2004 - 1:07pm
Hello everyone

This is my story

I meet this great guy he is 21 and i'm 25, he has a 4yr old daughter that loves me to death, along with his whole family. WE were doing fine the sex was good me didn't fight we enjoyed being with each other. as of june 11th we were dating a month like i said everything was great. Last thursday night he was giving me an attuide and i said i was going to leave and i went fer a ride to clam down. i was very mad and i texted him and said somethings when i came back to the house he said it was over that i brought it on myself. he said its because i yelled at his daughter and tryed to act like her mom and had attuide(but she could call me mom and it was ok ) i tryed to talk to him but nothing. on sat he told me that he needed to get his stuff together and he couldn't do it with a g/f ( he lost his job and had sold his car)no one in his family knows whats going on with him and he wont talk to anyone. ( he is very thick headed) its been almost a week now and he still wont call me ( but fer the past month he couldn't go 4hr with out calling me) I'm so hurt and have no clue what to do

please help

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 1:56pm
Sorry you have to go through this. You don't know if he will come back. That is a fact. It takes time to heal. You have to grieve for what what might have been, for what could have been, for what you hoped would have been. Let him cool off. Don't contact him, honor his wishes.

My best to you on your healing path.


Carrie