Girlfriend you need to get a life out of the house and feel important too. I don't mean with men.Go out with girlfriends one a month stay out late see a movie have dinner and drinks...relax...The mommy in you is overworked and the woman in you body is getting lost. Also once a month you and your mate should go on a date. No talking about children only one another.GOOD LUCK
Do you understand that your current approach is already causing damage to your relationship?
You are treating your husband as though he is Guilty Until Proven Innocent, while trying to find or fabricate anything to make him wrong.
You probably have been feeling out of control since you quit work and are with your children. The children
Welcome to the board ausavannah,
You've gotten some really good advice.
::But like I said, I don't think he's having an actual affair, I just think they're becoming really good friends.