How do I turn her back to me...

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Registered: 05-31-2003
How do I turn her back to me...
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Sat, 05-31-2003 - 9:08pm
I had an intimate relationship this girl that I thought I was going to be with for the rest of my life. I gave her all I had. She REALLY loved me, and I loved her even more than that. We shared all our hearts together. However, after a while, her love for me apparently cooled down. After so many little stupid fights she was hurt. After so much stress from college, I didn't act as I should've. Then one day, she told me to just be her friend. She said she is "tired.", "totally tired of trying for our relationship to work out." I regret what I did... I asked her to give me one more chance. She refused. I kept on asking while all my pride and self-esteem came down to NOTHING. She said it's never going to work out. She said she still cares for me, but she doesn't love me. She doesn't feel it anymore. If I can only have another chance with her... She said she is ok with it, but she said that she is hurt knowing that I am hurt. Now, we are in our summer break. (apparently it isn't since I am living in such a misery everyday) She went to her home, and I am here. I know she is not completely over me. (at least I hope) I love her more than anyone or anything on this earth. I know it sounds pathetic, but can someone give me an advice on how I should go about getting her back? I don't care how long it might take. I just want to be the one to protect her again from pains... she has an absolutely horrible past. That's why I wanted to be the one to relive her from that, although it turned out that I gave her pain also. What shall I do...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-02-2003 - 1:23am
You have to accept that what the two of you shared is over, and then you have to move on. You can't make a person what to be with you or love you.