How do U know when it's time to end?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2004
How do U know when it's time to end?
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Sat, 06-21-2008 - 6:21pm

Hi Everyone,


I'm having a hard time right now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 8:42pm

First up, I want to say that him lying is not OK.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2004
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 8:58pm

Thank you for your response.


To answer your question, when I first found porn when we were dating I very calmly discussed my issues with it to him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 9:27pm
Lying is a sickness unto itself. He needs professional help. You cant build a solid marriage or relationship on a bed of lies...very unstable.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 06-22-2008 - 1:00am

Welcome to the board iluvlittlepeanut,


::Our first MC acted like I was overreacting to everything and that H had a rough childhood so I should be more understanding of his lies (his parents were very controlling).


Are you freakin' kidding me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2004
Sun, 06-22-2008 - 7:38am

Thank you Carrie...


I will take your advice and talk to someone on my own... this is slowly killing me and I feel like i'm sinking in to a major depression.


I feel so stupid.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 06-22-2008 - 12:25pm

You aren't stupid. My guess is you are in love and therefore, you want his word to mean something 'this time', you want it to be true.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
Sun, 06-22-2008 - 1:37pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Sun, 06-22-2008 - 1:52pm
Do you have family or parents with whom you could live..if need be?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Mon, 06-23-2008 - 12:15pm
Your sanity and happiness is worth it all.

 

 

 

 

 

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