How do you know?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
How do you know?
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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 12:49pm
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 1:06pm

I think I'd be asking, is this behavior new and possibly temporary (situational, maybe), or has it always been there and I'm just now really noticing and having it bother me?

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 1:57pm

Welcome to the board gal_mel77,


I think one big indicator is whether or not you are happy and whether or not the problems that are present and things can be (or they are willing) fixed.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 8:25pm
For me, I call it quits in a relationship when I have done anything and everything to make things work - compromise - discussions - counseling if necessary
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 2:12am

I don't believe in putting in a whole lot of effort to fix a relationship where you're not married.