I think I'd be asking, is this behavior new and possibly temporary (situational, maybe), or has it always been there and I'm just now really noticing and having it bother me?
I think one big indicator is whether or not you are happy and whether or not the problems that are present and things can be (or they are willing) fixed.
For me, I call it quits in a relationship when I have done anything and everything to make things work - compromise - discussions - counseling if necessary
I think I'd be asking, is this behavior new and possibly temporary (situational, maybe), or has it always been there and I'm just now really noticing and having it bother me?
Welcome to the board gal_mel77,
I think one big indicator is whether or not you are happy and whether or not the problems that are present and things can be (or they are willing) fixed.
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I don't believe in putting in a whole lot of effort to fix a relationship where you're not married.