How do you know if it should be over?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2007
How do you know if it should be over?
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Fri, 06-29-2007 - 2:00pm
I'm 26 and have been dating this guy for 3 yrs and living with him for 2 years. Lately things have been on the rocks. It's seems like we each are starting to pick little fights with eachother that grow into bigger ones. I told him to move out if that's what he wants and he says that, I always say that when times are rough....I only say it cuz I can tell he obviously not happy. But he never goes...Things will be werid for a day or so then normal til the next week or two....is this a sign that it's not working? I'm not sure where do go from here. I love him and think he loves me but we should be happy. Are we just hitting a rock? I'm tired of the unknown.

So my ex and I dated for 3 years lived together for 2. We have been broken up for 1.5 years. It was a mutual brk up. I moved 2 hours away about a year ago and often go back home and visit. We did keep in touch for the first year then

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 5:15pm

Welcome to the board case84,


If he isn't happy and you keep telling him to move out, it sounds like there isn't really much of a relationship left anyways. Try making a list of the problems in your relationship and then look at the list and see if you can come up with any solutions to your problems. This should help point you in the right direction.

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