How do you mend a Broken heart?

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Registered: 10-31-2008
How do you mend a Broken heart?
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Fri, 10-31-2008 - 3:57pm
I have recently split up from my partner... we lived together, we were having problems, we had a break.... i was under the impression we were going to think about how we could improve things, work things out.... only to be confronted when we met again with confusion, a brickwall and no negotiation to try and overcome our problems. I still feel so upset....he said he didn't know what he wanted... I haven't been able to see him or contact him since.... I wrote a letter and the response was an angry txt msg disregarding most of what I said.... a few msgs went back and forth till I decided I couldn't take anymore. I am heart broken, I still love this person to bits despite what has happened yet I've lost him completely and feel as tho we could work things out if only he would give me the chance but that chance has gone for he shut down on me can any one offer any advice to overcome a broken heart?

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Registered: 02-21-2004
Sun, 11-02-2008 - 7:04pm
i got dumped 5 1/2 weeks ago. i have spent those weeks crying, crying, crying, talking about him endlessly, lost 15 pounds, cried some more. i woke today and said 'wait a minuite!!!!! i want someone who worships the gorund i walk on and i will do the same for him. the heck with this!!!! you will get there and realize you wasted your time and thoughts on someone who
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Registered: 10-21-2004
Sun, 11-02-2008 - 8:20pm

Remember ... there is a "Breaking Up is Hard to Do" board that might be more appropriate for the venting, etc that this thread has transitioned into.

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Registered: 10-31-2008
Mon, 11-03-2008 - 4:01pm
Thanks for your advice.... i really do hope so. its been 2 months... but today I feel a bit better xx

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