How to get a guy back. Help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
How to get a guy back. Help!
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Tue, 12-30-2003 - 9:28pm
I met this totally awesome, intelligent, funny guy and I messed up. I broke up with him just when things were going really well because I still had feelings for my ex. I realize now, that I really liked this guy and I would like for him to give me asecond chance. I think I really hurt his feelings though. I do I go about getting hime back? Can we even be friends? I really miss him.

Thanks for any advice that you can give. If you need more specific info in order to help me out let me know.

Thank you so much.

Lonely and Regretful

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
Tue, 12-30-2003 - 9:33pm
its been a while since i gave advise to people so be it good or bad here it is

have u tried asking him explain how u messed up and how miserable u are without him?? i beleive in the straight forward approach, no BS just go straight to the source....

sorry if i was no help...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2003
Tue, 12-30-2003 - 9:51pm
yeah i agree, the first step toward getting him back is to be honest and tell him how you exactly feel. no mind games, just go for it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2003
Thu, 01-01-2004 - 5:53pm
I agree. I think you should tell him that you made a mistake and will he give you a second chance. The thing is, whether he says yes or no is his choice. If he says no, than at least you gave it a chance and you won't always be wondering. You're not going to know until you ask, and he may say yes and decide to give you another chance. Good luck.