How to go Fwd ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2011
How to go Fwd ?
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Tue, 10-25-2011 - 8:05pm

Hi -and thank you for your replies x

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 9:05pm

Amy, you can't stop him saying what he does about your son.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2011
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 9:35pm

thank you x

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 9:57pm

First of all, I would say that since he is only the BF, it's really not his business how you are raising your son.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Wed, 10-26-2011 - 12:26am

Unless your b/f is more important to you than your son is......then who is he to criticize the way you raise your son.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2010
Wed, 10-26-2011 - 2:20am

Amy1962-

Hi. If he is critical of your son like you describe, I wouldn't move in with your boyfriend. Living separately, you can have your son around and following your own rules without involving your boyfriend much. Also, you can better protect yourself from being robbed by his children.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 10-26-2011 - 2:56am

The age of consent in Britain and Australia is 16.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 10-26-2011 - 2:58am

>>Prob is ...He is the only one saying it - iv spoke to numerous people who say he is acting like a child -and as for his accusations he's pathetic , iv been commended on my son <<

Amy, you misunderstand me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2011
Wed, 10-26-2011 - 3:51am
Thanx i appreciate your reply .. maybe i need to be strong -and kick him into touch , my son does come first we have been on our own since i escaped a violent relationship and worked hard to keep us together , I love this man as when we are together (alone ) he is fantastic - but now he is pushing for our future and live together ...... and its his way or the highway !!! well looks like il be doing the walk on this relationship -so thank you x
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2011
Wed, 10-26-2011 - 4:06am
Thank you , Yes the law here is 16 yrs ,I would also question myself as a parent if they had not been together for 2yrs ,they spend time in each others bedroom at parents homes and parents out working - so im sure nothing has gone on that has'nt taken place already , so we were comfy with situ , b/f needs to take a jump i agree -as he has told me to stop caring for my 83 yr old mum now , as she (apparantly ) manipulates me , Mmmm I think ill let someone else have him -your right x
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2011
Wed, 10-26-2011 - 4:07am
Thank you x

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