How to I handle how I feel?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-21-2007
How to I handle how I feel?
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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 2:17pm
Hi everyone,

Please help. Am I justified to feel the way I do?


My dilemma, married eight years with two children.


1) She can't make love to me, per se, only her fantasies while with me.


Every time….I mean every time we've been intimate in our 8 year marriage (2x a week average), my DW asks about other girls I have been with to get her "O" or other AP fantasies to finish off.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 5:15pm

::You see, (sorry woman) you believe your husbands should provide, cook, clean, and only wait until you are ready to have s*x. If we diverge from your illusion of a perfect man than you become b*tchy and we're never good enough. So we have two options, either put up a fight and yell and scream until you realize you can't change who we are and you have to deal with it, or we become Yes men or "mental midgets" and then you hate us because we do everything for you and you feel guilty because now you don't love what is otherwise a perfectly good man that you turned us into.


If that is your belief system, then your wife has really done a number no you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 12:09pm

You are completely wrong in your response to me....women are NOT like your wife BUT you ignored that she was the way she was and married her anyway AND the worst part there are children involved.

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