how often is healthy/unhealthy 2 fight
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how often is healthy/unhealthy 2 fight
| Tue, 05-11-2004 - 10:29pm |
Question:
How many times in a week or month would it be considered unhealthy to have fights with your boyfriend/girlfriend....?
Thanks in advance

Relationships require honesty and boundary setting to remain intimate and successful. This is always bound to bring friction. But if you can both focus on solving the problem and behavior, instead of attacking the person, then you can learn to work things out and become stronger.
You will have to give us more examples of what and how you are fighting.
Personally, I wouldn't have pursued a relaitonship with DH if we had not been able to communicate effectively enough to avoid having fights on a weekly or monthly basis. Having an emotional outburst once a year is more our speed...