How to show I care a lot about him?

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Registered: 10-08-2007
How to show I care a lot about him?
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 5:51pm
Hi, I have been going out with a guy for about 2 months now, I like him and I care a lot about him but I don't seem to find ways to show him and express my feelings. What are some romantic ways
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 6:11pm

Romantic gestures?

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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 6:24pm
Seriously. Girly stuff doesn't work on guys. I know you want to say "oh I'll just get him a cute teddy bear with a heart that says his name on it" or "Oh I'll write him a poem" but really... pizza and beer.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 7:03pm

Welcome to the board melody_4,


You don't say how old the two of you are... you could offer a massage.

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 8:13pm

I often thank the guys in my life when I feel the need. When they do something they appreciate, I let them know. If I appreciate something a lot, I might even bring it up a few days later, such as "remember when you did XYZ for me? I loved that."

Its so simple and it works very well for me.

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Registered: 10-08-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 11:15pm

I am almost 27 ( my birthday is this month , so i'll see if he remembers) and he's 28. I scheduled a massage the other day, but our schedules didn't cooperate with us so it'll be for another time.


He was very much in love in his past relationship but for different reasons, he's not with her anymore. I'm trying to make this work for us, but at the same time, i don't wanna be cheesy or offer him too much or be a sugar mamma:)


Thank you for your replies.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 11:48am

Invite him over to your house and then answer the door dressed in a sexy little outfit.

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Sat, 10-13-2007 - 11:04pm

But what if he doesn't like beer? As a matter of fact, when

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Sun, 10-14-2007 - 2:08am

>>But what if he doesn't like beer? As a matter of fact, when

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Sun, 10-14-2007 - 11:40am

~~But what if he doesn't like beer? As a matter of fact, when if he does not drink at all?~~

The point here is to do something for him that HE would like. My SO loves to play golf. We went on a long weekend trip out of state not long ago and stayed in some condos on a very nice golf course. I don't play so my SO wasn't sure about bringing his clubs with him. Because I love him and want him to be happy I convinced him to bring the clubs and to just see what happens. He told me that he didn't want to take so much time out of my day while on this trip to play a round of golf. I knew he really wanted to play this course so I told him to make a tee time and I would go with him. He got to play and I went with him. We were able to spend time together and he got to play a round of golf.

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