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How to win her back...
| Tue, 10-30-2007 - 6:17pm |
I have been going out with this woman for 5 years. However before our break up which was about couple of months ago, we were having so troubles. Actually I was making troubles up in order to give myself a little freedom. In the end I ended up cheating on her with a couple of girls, but I did not have sex with anyone else. It was just flirting and kissing. She found out and completely lost it. Although we did speak for a while after the break up as if we were still going out but I guess that was just because it was fresh and also because she probably didn't believe it right away. But as time went by she spoke to me less and less and now she doesn't want to talk to me. I know she still loves me and that she is so hurt and mostly betrayed and feels very played. But the truth is I didn't play her and I love her more than anything in this world. I explained to her that I regret everything and wish it never happened many times. I tell her I love her over and over again, and I even brought her flowers a few times. People give advice that I should give her space and not talk to her but they also say that when the girl breaks up with the man because of other reasons and that the man can't act so desperate. But I find that this is different because I did something wrong and I caused this so all I feel is that I have the responsibility to make things better and excuse myself as much as I can. I don't know if this is healthy or right thing to do to get her back. I want to marry this woman and I know it sounds cliche but I have fallen so much more in love with her after everything that happened, and I have told her that and she freaks out thinking I never loved her in the first place. I want this woman to be my wife and I want o raise a family with this woman. Please help shed some light on this situation. I don't know the steps I have to take to win back her heart and her trust. Thank you and greatly appreciated...

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"In the end I ended up cheating on her with a couple of girls"
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"But the truth is I didn't play her"
Read those two statements of yours over again and tell me if this makes sense.
Leave her alone and let her get over you, don't barge your way back into her life - you're not thinking about what she wants, only what YOU want. Let her go. Find another woman. By continually harassing your ex to take you back, you're not proving your love for her, you're proving how selfish you are. What she wants is to be away from you, and I think you should respect that.
Man do you sound like my ex fiance.
It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well.-- Rene Descartes
"i never once doubted my love for her. "
Yes you did.
It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well.-- Rene Descartes
It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well.-- Rene Descartes
Welcome to the board francesco10,
I'm going to give you a whole lot to think about.....
::Actually I was making troubles up in order to give myself a little freedom. In the end I ended up cheating on her with a couple of girls, but I did not have sex with anyone else. It was just flirting and kissing.
From your subsequent posts, ONE time could be considered a mistake, but 'a couple' sorry it's deeper than just making a mistake.
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