hurt and confused

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2007
hurt and confused
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Tue, 03-13-2007 - 7:17am
I've been in a relationship for the past four years. Now i want us to be married, but he's dodging. Its so bad that i've broken up with him. but i love him very much and am convinced we're soulmates. i don't know what's so terrible about marriage that he's so skittish. i'm miserable. what do i do to get him back to me so he marries me?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: papoosh
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 11:44am

Hi papoosh,


Do you want to be married or to you want to have it be mutual?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: papoosh
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 1:56pm
There is no way for you to get him back and make him marry you. This has to be his decision. Don't you want to be married to someone who wants to marry you, not someone you tricked/convinced into marrying you?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: papoosh
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 4:08pm
There is nothing you can do to make him want to marry you. I think the smartest thing you can do is break up and leave him alone. Move on and find someone who values marrieage like you do.