hurt and confused...

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Registered: 03-16-2004
hurt and confused...
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Tue, 03-16-2004 - 5:48pm
ok..I went out on a date with this really amazingly intelligent and good looking guy...the next day he asked me out!and two days later he tells me he actually has a girlfriend and that they have a long distance thing going..his suggestion is that 'we should just enjoy what we share'. i havent slept with him yet..hes awfully affectionate but i have to add that we havent been out on a date again after the first time..he just comes over to my place...is that a little wierd or what? im really confused...i dont know whether i should just stop it right now before i start liking him too much...i dont know whether hes just playing some game...or if he really likes me. please please help...
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 6:01pm
Talk to the poster of "I have a bf problem".

Has a girlfriend = UNAVAILABLE.

I bet she doesn't know about you. So in my book that makes him a CHEATER.


Carrie

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 8:46pm
Hmmm... he has a girlfriend, he's getting affectionate after the first date, and he doesn't take you out but just wants to hang out at your house, and says, "Let;s just enjoy what we share."... sounds to me like he just wants a little physical action while his unknowing girlfriend remains far far away.
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Registered: 02-23-2004
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 9:58pm
It's good to know someone else is going through almost the same thing as I am. See my post, titled "confused...have a bf problem." Either way, from the advice I've received, it's best that you move on with your life so you don't get hurt the same way as I did. Good luck.

Steph :)


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Registered: 10-07-2003
Wed, 03-17-2004 - 10:13am
I say GET RID OF HIM.... Have some respect for yourself and the other woman... Would you want a guy to do this to you????