Husband and Private Dances

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Registered: 01-27-2004
Husband and Private Dances
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Tue, 01-27-2004 - 2:27pm
Last November my husband went to Vegas where he spent $1600 at strip clubs and for private dances with the dancers. Our marriage almost ended. He said he didn't realize how much this had hurt me and promised to never do it again.

This November he got drunk and went to another club, spending $600.

Well, I just found out that he went to a club by himself and payed $260 for two private dances in a room away from the bar area. Two nights later spending $400 he went again with business customers.

He has been in therapy for his drinking and what he calls his other problems. His mother died and says he hasn't been able to handle it. He feels I don't respect him, he's right I don't! Everytime I look in his face I see a naked woman straddled over him.

Well I can't handle anymore!! How can this be normal, am I over reacting? My heart has been ripped out. People look at us and think we have a wonderful marriage! HA Where do I go from here?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 01-28-2004 - 2:44pm
I've been to several strip clubs and never seen what is described in the article. I think some of it has to do with the laws in different cities and states and how well their are enforced. I'm sure there are some like that in the article, but they aren't all like that.

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