Husband is Bi-curious
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Husband is Bi-curious
| Thu, 08-02-2007 - 4:03pm |
My husband I beleive is bi-curious does that make him gay? He downloads Gay porno and beleives I don't know anything about it but I do but I don't know how to question him on it.
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| Thu, 08-02-2007 - 5:00pm |
DEAR CONFUSED, I HAVE NOT BEEN THRU WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU. I CAN ONLY TELL YOU FROM MY EXPERIENCES. I WAS MARRIED TO A GUY THAT HAD BI WAYS HE STARTED OFF BY TELLING ME ABOUT HIM LIVING WITH THIS GUY IN HIGH SCHOOL. IT WAS KINDA STRANGE TO ME I KEPT PUSHING AND THEN AFTER I WAS THREE MONTHS PREGNANT HE TOLD ME ABOUT HIM AND THE GUY SLEEPING TOGETHER AND THE MORE HE TOLD ME THE SICKENED I GOT HE WAS WILLING TO TELL ME EVERYTHING SHORT OF THE STORY WAS I COULD NOT HANDLE HIM BEING WITH THE GUY AND THEN SEEING THE GUY MADE IT WORSE DON'T GET ME WRONG MY EX WAS A GREAT GUY JUST BE PREPAIRED FOR THE WORSE MAKE SURE YOU CAN HANDLE KNOWING IF IT COMES TO WHAT YOU ALREADY SUSPECT.
| Fri, 08-03-2007 - 11:45am |
I am just confused because when we first got together his family as well as some of mine told me he was gay. but I didn't see that in him. As time went by i saw things but let it go. We have three boys and he is an awesome dad but it just is different between us. the phone calls to gay 800 numbers and downloadings of gay porno is really confusing me. i just don't know how to bring it up to him. He was raped by a man when he was younger and when I first found out about the phone calls I confronted him with it and he said he was just listening and of course I didn't bye it but I also just dropped it. and now years later now this and I am confused on how to confront him. Is he Curious or is he really gay and doesn't want his family to know. I honestly don't know what to do next....
| Fri, 08-03-2007 - 2:21pm |
ya know that is what my ex told me that he was raped and then it ended up that he had lived with that man for almost 2 yrs. he told me he wasn't gay but that he had had sex with that person for over a year. now that we are not together any more we have remained best friends he is married i am not but he has been married to his current wife for over 5 yrs now and i have been present for all his kids births me and his wife are good friends and i have asked her if he ever brings up that other guy and she said he did for the first year but now everything is normal so maybe its a phase but its a phase he needs to figure out cause you don't deserve to hurt like this.
