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husband cheated now what?
| Thu, 01-08-2004 - 11:44am |
2 days before Christmas the OW calls to inform me of the affair - she says they had sex he says it did'nt go that far. I needed the truth to go on so I called her and ended up talking with her & her husband most of what they said seemed like lies and not possible the gifts etc. (since I take care of all the money). I asked where it took place and she waited for her husband to reply saying it was in my van my H only took my van 1 time and not when she said it happened she coudldnt even remember the date. And to double check I called the jewlers and they needed his approval he kept saying whatever and when I told him to just say its ok to tell me he hung up the phone. there is so much more but these are the highlights I feel she is being vandictive but also feel he is still lying.I feel we can move on but with the lies I cant. we have been married 16 years and have to small children We move frequently so I dont have a big support group and am rather scared and alone. I am starting counciling in a few days but any advice or insight would be helpful
thanks dmark100

Consider posting on the Betrayed Spouse Support board....they have experience with this sort of thing.
My best to you.
Carrie