husband is contacting his ex
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| Fri, 03-05-2004 - 4:33pm |
I guess my question is this...do you think I should be worried by his actions in secretly trying to contact his ex? For the record, she lives in another state and is married (although I've heard unhappily). Oh, one more thing...he also did an internet search for her phone# and also a search for her wedding announcement in the paper, which lead to a link to where she worked (or used to work, I have no idea). It just seems like he's carrying it a bit far. If you're going to tell me to confront him, I'll tell you I won't, not yet, I want to see if she'll answer his email and what he has to say. If you're going to tell me to get counselling, I'll tell you we can't, not now, there's no way we could afford it.
Is this a sign of a man who wants out? Sometimes I think men "let" things get really bad to justify leaving, rather than putting some effort into making things better. I'm confused, angry, hurt, and very lonely these days,
jodee

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