husband is driving ne crazy
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husband is driving ne crazy
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 10:40am |
my husband and i split up 2 years ago,during that time my car broke down and my girlfriends husband offered to fix it for free.he brought a friend with him to guide him because he wasnt exactly sure how to do it, he couldnt really help because he had a slipped disk in his back.in return i made dinner for them.my girlfriend was there with her 2 boys.this friend was newly married with a new born.now,my husband and i are back together,and having a graduation party for my daughter.he hates my friend and her husband because he thinks they were trying to fix me up!he says if they come he will "kick his ass".let me add at thet time he had a girlfriend!am i wrong for being upset with him? or is he right?

He is SO wrong! You have the right to get mad. It doesn't make sense at all. Why would your husband think your friends were trying to set you up with their friend who, HEL-LO is married with a child? Tell him to get his head out of his ass and get over himself. You are with him! So obviuosly you chose your husband over the friend so why does he have his panties in a bunch? Tell him to CHILL OUT!!!!! And invite your friends anyway, hopefully he' ll get over it and not mess up your daughter's day.
Sounds like your husband wanted no ties to you while you were seperated, but does not like the fact you may have had an interest (real or not) in another man. Why are you back together with him? I feel if your partner does not trust you then it's driven by their own a)lack of self esteem or b) their desire to cheat.