Husband had a stroke

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Registered: 11-06-2007
Husband had a stroke
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Tue, 11-06-2007 - 2:25pm
My husband of 21 years had a massive stroke a year+ ago and is currently living in an assisted care home. Long story--after his stroke I got evicted with

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Registered: 11-06-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 5:53pm

It is sad when a marriage has many lies in it.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 2:49am
I also think you are right to do as you have done. Regardless of when he lied to you, you *just* found out. It is new to you. It's kind of like the women I talk to whose h had an affair 10 or 20 years ago, but they just found out. It doesn't hurt any less or make it any better because it happened so long ago. To you, it may just as well have happened on the day you found out about the lies rather than the many years ago that the lies happened. In addition to that, you have the abuse issues. I'm very glad for you that you were able and willing to get out!

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Wed, 11-07-2007 - 9:16am

Wow.

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