Husband not supportive

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Registered: 08-02-2004
Husband not supportive
Mon, 08-02-2004 - 12:44pm
Need some advice. Hubby, 3 kids and I were supposed to go on vac with his parents on Sun. Just found out my mom is having major surgery on Friday so I won't be going. Hubby STILL plans to take our 2 boys and go with his parents. This is very upsetting to me. My mom will be in the ICU for 3-4 days but he's going to drive 9 hours on vacation and leave me with our 2 year old. This isn't the first time I've taken a backseat to my inlaws. Am I being unreasonable in expecting him to cancel the vacation? (We won't lose any money on it, etc.) If he goes I am considering taking the kids and leaving. Don't want to tell him to stay because I want it to be his decision to stay/go. Any thoughts?