husband is selling naked pics of me

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Registered: 09-07-2007
husband is selling naked pics of me
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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 10:13am
I was looking for something in my husband's computer desk drawers and found a receipt for ebay, for a package so that he can "Make money with girlfriend or wife", I looked at the item and it involves him taking pictures of me and selling them on the internet. He already has some of me semi-naked as I was messing about the other day and he took a photo, he's also taken some of me while I wasn't looking. What should I do...confront him ?????? I'm really upset, but I really love and don't wnt to ruin what we have.
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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 10:59am

My goodness - loving someone includes being able to talk to them and to be respected. If you can't tell him how you feel and what is important to you, and have him listen and consider you, then what do you have??


His behavior is shocking and you "must" tell him that it is absolutely unacceptable to you. Was he planning to do this secretly? Without your consent? Take a step back and look at what's going on? He is behaving like a pimp. You "must" confront him with this. You must find out what he's thinking and how a husband could do something like this to his wife? Clearly there are parts of him you know nothing about. It's crucial to face what's going on...who knows what else is next?


Best wishes,

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 12:19pm

Welcome to the board funkymunky07,


Yes. You need to confront him about this. You may love him, but if he loved you he wouldn't be(or even think about) selling naked pictures of you without your consent. This shows a complete and utter lack of respect for you. Please talk to him about this as soon as possible.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 12:23pm

Welcome to the board funkymunky07,


::I'm really upset, but I really love and don't wnt to ruin what we have.


You talking to him won't ruin the relationship....He's already doing that on his own.

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 3:11pm

This is something you definitley need to talk him about.

There are all kinds of couples, and all kinds of things couples do that is their business to do, as long as they BOTH agree to it. It doesn't ound like you like this idea, and if this isn't for you, then as your partner, it really shouldn't be for him, either. You could theoretically have the pictures taken off ebay yourself, since you haven't given consent to selling them. Ebay would take them off in a heartbeat, wanting to avoid litgation, although your husband would be the one completely in the wrong, and not ebay.

To me, if you both agree, groovy and who am I to insert my personal morals on it, but if you both aren't agreeing, then that's a betrayal that I couldn't possibly comprehend. It's your body and pictures of your body, to do with as you wish, just being your husband doesn't give him the right to sell you that way.

I'm not sure what you think you "have" if your husband is contemplating selling nude photos of you without your consent or even knowledge..

Good luck to you,

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 8:04pm
I can't believe you would even CONSIDER staying with someone who has done this to you. What an awful way you betray your trust - Your husband is a truly sad individual.