Husband wants open relationship....
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Husband wants open relationship....
| Wed, 07-30-2008 - 11:14am |
Well, it's not really that he wants an open relationship...it's more that he gets turned on by the thought of me being with other men (and vice versa - him with other women).

Welcome to the board dncingrl,
Fantasy is great as long as it stays in 'Fantasyland' if it doesn't and crosses over to reality, it changes everything.
Since he's not hearing you, stop discussing it.
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Like the other posters said...if you stop talking about it..then maybe he'll get it through his head that your feelings have changed. This is only if he cannot separate fantasy from real life and wants to make it real life.
If I had a husband who wanted to share me like that I would interpret that to mean he doesnt love me.
Thank you all for the support and great advice.
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I think that is exactly what is holding me back...even though it did turn me on quite
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