Husband was more loving and affectionate
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Husband was more loving and affectionate
| Sat, 10-09-2004 - 12:50pm |
I am so confused and need some major advice. My husband and I have been married almost one year and everything was great when we were dating. He asked me everyday for a month or more to marry him, telling me all the time how beautiful I am and how much he loves me, doing little things like cooking for me, running bubble baths for me, giving me love and affection and lots of attention to me all the time. Then it seems like once we were married it all stopped. I don't get compliments anymore. If I need to hear him say he loves me I have to say it first. Having him cook now for me, well it doesn't happen now, and the running a bath for me, well, I have to do it for myself. He isn't as sweet and romantic now at all. I am just so confused and need to know why men change once the marriage certificate is dry. Any help will be greatly appreciated, as I am wondering if I am just losing it or what!! :)Thanks for any advice you can give me!!

Please take the other posters advice, be romantic with him, flirt with him, and keep the lines of communication open and express that you would like to bring some of that romance back into the relationship.
Reading material:
Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw
A Couple's Guide to Communication, John Mordechai Gottman
His Needs, Her Needs by Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr
Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix
My best to you.
Carrie