husband w/out affection

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2007
husband w/out affection
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Sun, 11-25-2007 - 9:44pm
I love my husband, but I wonder if I am 'in love' with him anymore.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 11-26-2007 - 11:21am

Welcome to the board whatsmyfate,


I think it would be a really good idea to sit down with your therapist and figure out what you really want. I would also suggest asking your husband to go to marriage counseling with you to work on things.


I also think it would be best to end the emotional affair until you have figure things out. Keeping it going it just going to confuse you more at this point.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 11-26-2007 - 12:17pm

Welcome to the board whatsmyfate,


I get the feeling you figured out that having an emotional affair is not the way to go....it's only showing you what you are missing, but not really solving the problem.

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Registered: 01-06-2005
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 3:15am
HI
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 8:55am
He's not meeting your needs, and it doesn't sound as if he wants to.