Husbands and Porn

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Registered: 11-27-2007
Husbands and Porn
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 12:36pm

My husband and I both love sex.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 12:52pm
To guys, porn isn't sex and sex isn't porn. One isn't necessarily substituted for the other. I don't think that you should be offended - it's not an affront to you. He probably has a tremendous sex drive but it's just different doing it on your own. Not more interesting, not better, just different. I think a lot of women don't really understand this concept. He's not doing it because he isn't satisfied by you. In fact... he's most likely just bored. I don't know what to tell you. If you're happy with one another, that's what counts, right?
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 2:17pm

Welcome to the board amylovesfern,


It is my opinion that porn is only an issue if it affects a couple's sex life. It is not affecting yourself so I won't worry about it.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 2:53pm

Welcome to the board amylovesfern,


It's a good thing he's still having sex with you, but his *need* seems a little high to me, like on hyperdrive.