Husband's been in Iraq for over a year.

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Registered: 03-02-2004
Husband's been in Iraq for over a year.
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Thu, 03-04-2004 - 11:30pm
Where do I start? Less than a year ago while he is in Iraq he says he is not happy and was planning on leaving me. It wasnt because of another women, he just says he was not happy. Then everything worked itself out. He was able to come home for 2 weeks in NOvember. I thought everything was great, we took our son to Disneyworld, I thought we were happy. Then it got to where i found out he was subscribing to the personals on the web and was IM people. I asked him about it and he said again he was not happy and he wanted to leave me again. What am i suppose to do. He tells me now that he would never leave me and that he loves me, but he still talks to people and still looks at porn on the internet. He is home now and has been for about 3 weeks now. He has put his picture on the Hot or Not website and in his profile he says that he loves to have sex and his quote is"Is that a mirror in your pocket cause I can see myself in your pants." Here's the biggie he sent an e-mail to everyone including his family and my family to rate him on Hot or Not dot com. Now my family is concerned because they read his profile and i have to explain to them and I just dont know what to do. I cant handle all this crap, I know all anyone is going to tell me is eitther to leave him or to go get counseling. I love him and I know he loves me. I am sorry this is so long, I just dont have anybody to talk to. Please give me your expert opinion.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 03-05-2004 - 12:32am
bottom line?

he's a dick. divorce him.

what you see is what you get.

sorry, hon, but really, he's not worth keeping.

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Fri, 03-05-2004 - 5:48am
well i am no expert -but he definately does not LOVE you. people don't treat their loved ones like sh*t. if he is in the military , then my best advice is to find out what your rights are. sorry for this...