Husband's Female Friends
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Husband's Female Friends
| Thu, 01-08-2004 - 9:51am |
HELP! Ever since my husband and I were dating (we dated for 4 years and have been married for 4 years), he has always had female friends. At first, it made me a little jealous, but most of the time I am fine. Lately, it's starting to bug me again! For instance, he said he met a male friend after work yesterday for a drink. After a little prying, he stated that 2 female friends also joined them. He said that he was trying to set 2 people up. I have met all of his "girlfriends" (I think!) and I don't feel like he has ever cheated. What I don't like is that he seems secretive at times about meeting up with these female friends. He is an outside salesman and spends most of his flexible work schedule on the road (locally)calling on customers. He is very outgoing and loves to have parties at our house, go to get-togethers, etc. I, however am social, but would rather have most of my work nights and weekends to ourselves. We are both 29, and have no children. Do you think I have reason to worry?

As for innocence, trust your instincts. If you feel that somethings wrong, it probably is. If he is with these female freinds all of the time, why dont you ever join them?If it is work related, I can understand you not always being able to join him with the work related things, but there should be no reason why you cant join them when he does other activities with these female freinds.
If you find that you talk to him about these concerns, and still feel anxious, maybe you can look into counseling.
Trust is the basis of a healthy relationship, if you dont have that, what do you have?
Good luck,