Husband's past - disturbing revelation
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Husband's past - disturbing revelation
| Sun, 01-25-2009 - 7:41pm |
I recently found out that the man I have been married to for 18 years had an affair with his best friend's wife (they were newly

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Welcome to the board bonn1963,
I can understand how you feel.
I found out about the affair when reading an old journal he had, which I probably should not have been reading in the first place.
I agree, I understand why you feel upset. I would too.
In order to get over this, which I assume you do if you're writing here, you'll have to ask yourself what this really changes between you. Knowing this information doesn't change the man you know and love, it's not a piece of information he brought into your marriage and it doesn't have to affect your relationship. If you had known this earlier, would you have called off the wedding and broken up with him?
::Perhaps if two years ago
I'm not sure what you mean by it is not a piece of info he brought into the marriage.
Perhaps you need to hear some background.
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