I am going crazy!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-29-2004
I am going crazy!!!
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Tue, 06-29-2004 - 11:19pm
My boyfriend (whom I live with) has a habit of going out ALL the time. I am a very affectionate person and like having him around but he nevers seems to be. If I have the day off he is out with friends and the same if I have an early day from work. I have talked to him about my feelings and that I am feeling neglected but he doesn't seem to understand. When he leaves the house to hang out with a friend he won't come home until the late hours of the evening or sometimes not at all. I know this isn't a cheating thing. I have a lot of faith in him but I believe he has a big problem with consideration. I am so unhappy I am thinking of leaving him. I love him and when i am with him I am happy but because of this problem I seem to be living my life in misery right now with no indication that it will change. What should I do? Am I just being selfish?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2004
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 2:48am
Too bad. You are living with a guy who DOES NOT ENJOY BEING AROUND YOU. He prefers to go out with friends than spend time with you. Dump him and find a man who loves being around YOU. This guy is not trying very hard to have any kind of relationship with you I am sorry to say. good luck.