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I am high maintenance!
| Fri, 07-11-2008 - 10:01pm |
I came on this board...because I swear I am retarted and I don't think I come on this board so much, so maybe the people here aren't sick of me whining yet...so I have to whine.
Me and b/f are going thru alot of changes.
I have out of control kids (my kids and one of my sons has his pregnant girlfriend living here).
And my b/f just got told he they are selling his house he has to move.

'he says to me "you are one of the best things that has ever happened to me".
Hi misssy2,
Here's your previous posts from this board to help others catch up on your situation:
Not really a problem, but a situation
I am the problem!
Reading material to consider:
Codependent No More, Melody Beattie
Loving Him without Losing You: How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself by Beverly Engel
Loving Men More, Needing Men Less, by Judith Sills
Sorry misssy but you took what was really an incredibly sweet statement and turned it into a punishment. Men really want these things to be appreciated because it takes a lot of trust to be able to say them.
It sounds to me as though you are intentionally (though perhaps subconsciously) giving him a hard time. If I were you I'd do some reading and research into the idea of self-sabotage in a relationship. That may be a big possibility.
That was pretty freaky to see my past posts!
But, I thank you Carrie and everyone who responded.