I AM HURT??

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Registered: 04-14-2004
I AM HURT??
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Thu, 05-20-2004 - 10:29pm
THE MAN I AM IN LOVE WITH HAVE A GIRLFRIEND AND IT SEEM LIKE WE ARE NEVER GOING TO GET BACK TOGETHER. WE LIVE RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM EACH OTHER AND WE BEEN IN RELATIONSHIP WITH EACH OTHER OFF IN ON . WE BROKE UP BECAUSE I CAUGHT HIM CHEATING BUT I STLL DEALT WITH HIM, BUT WE BEEN THROUGH HELL TOGETHER AND I STILL LOVE HIM BUT IT SEEM LIKE WE ARENT GETTING BACK TOGETHER. I DONT NO WHAT TO DO, I STLL LOVE HIM..
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2004
In reply to: sexy_lips
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 9:07am
It appears to me that you may love him but he does not feel the same about you. You can't make someone love you so my advice is to just move on (as he has done) without him. With time you will feel better but you must let go in order to ever reach that. It's either move on or live with the hurt your feeling now by hanging on to him. That is a decision only you can make for yourself.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2003
In reply to: sexy_lips
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 9:19am
That has to be one of the hardest things in the world. I feel what you are saying, but you should realize that this relationship doesn't have a solid foundation. Why would you want to pursue someone that cheated on you or doesn't support you? Love. Simply. You may have been through "hell" with him, but why not try walking through heaven with someone else? If he is dating someone else, then his heart isn't completely with you. You need to reclaim some of yours back and move on....maybe even move away.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: sexy_lips
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 12:34pm
You realize he's a cheater and a liar and you grieve for what might have been, for what could have been, for what you hoped would have been. Then you make a list of things you enjoy and start doing them. He's UNAVAILABLE. He has a girlfriend.


Carrie