I am in need of advice!!!
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I am in need of advice!!!
| Wed, 03-10-2004 - 2:51pm |
I am involved with a person. We have been involved for 9 months.It has not been a smooth ride. In the first 3 months their Ex has been calling me nonstop at work and harassing me. She would tell me that she is coming down here to fight, and she will be moving here. My partner would tell me that they are not involved, but I find that hard to believe. When she is out of the picture and not butting in, we are the happiest, and it seems that everytime things are going well, here she comes stirring up trouble. She lies on me and say that I call her. Which I have given my partner proof that I do not. I have never lied to my partner, but it seems that they always take the Ex's word over mine. This is upsetting to me because I have given my all and to have someone, who by the way is miles away, can call and in 2 seconds have our relationships in an uproar. Now, I have not spoken to my partner in 3 days. We had a falling out, because the girl called and stated that the officers that are investigating my harassment charge is obtaining a warrant. Why do I feel like I did something wrong, and why hasn't my partner called me. Is it that he doesn't care and that the ex and him are still in a relationship. Any advice at this moment would be greatly appreciated.

Your boyfriend needs to "unload the excess baggage" (the EX) before continuing things with you. It's not YOUR responsibility...so don't make any more phone calls. And if you continue to receive phone calls at work...make it clear that you will report her to police authorities...then hang up.
If you feel you're being shared or used by your current b/f....then you know what you need to do. D-U-M-P H-I-M!
Pianoguy