I am in need of some advice HELP
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I am in need of some advice HELP
| Tue, 03-09-2004 - 12:56pm |
I have been married for 16 yrs this june,and my problem is that my husband has never had any interest in me or our 2 children.He has these mood swings and take everything out on me that happens at his job.He wanted me to stay home and take care of the children the house and him.I do everything around here he does nothing but sleep,eat ,and work.Over this last weekend he told me i was sleeping with someone else.I have NEVER been with anyone else since we have gotten together 18 yrs ago.I take my vows very seriously.Our kids are afraid to ask him anything cause he is always so mean to them.I don't know if his accusing me of sleeping with someone is because he is doing it or what it is.I really could use some help on this one.He is a truck driver.PLEASE HELP.

Tiffany
To the original poster-
I can't imagine putting up with this for so long. He is abusive to you are your kids. Do you want to keep subjecting them to this? What are you teaching them by staying in this marriage?
Before you say that you don'tbelieve in divorce-consider whether you really have a 'marriage'.You don't really have anything that those marriage vows(that only you take seriously) stand for do you? Does he respect you or honor you?
Also, often times people accuse their partners of cheating because they are projecting. They assume their spouses have the same values or lack thereof as themselves. Do you think he could be the one who is cheating?
Tiffany
abused me or my kids it's all emotionally.I really don't know how to get through to him.And as for the cheating i really don't know what to think anymore.He is a truck driver but he is home in the daytime and he knows i am also but to take the kids to school and pick them up.He is home all weekend long we have tried family nights but he always gets upset about one thing or another.I myself am very stressed and don't know what to think anymore.
abused me or my kids it's all emotionally'
So why put up with it any longer? Why subject your children to more emotional abuse? What will they learn about relationships, respect, how to treat others, how to be treated, love, and how will this affect their self-esteem?