I am so depressed Help!
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I am so depressed Help!
| Sun, 02-29-2004 - 6:19pm |
Ok here's the situation...I met this guy last year(he lives next door to my two friends) and we innocently flirted but nothing ever happened between us because we hardly ever saw each other. So anyway one day my friend threw a get together at her house and pretty soon me and her and him and another guy she likes were chatting and the 4 of us were having a great time. Anyway her and the other guy starting hooking up so we ended up at his house talking for a long time, then we ended up having sex. We cuddled all night and it was great. Then the next morning I freaked because I had never done anything like that before, so I left without talking to him. So another two weeks went by and I ended up at my friends house again only this time he had work and I stopped by and me and him slept together again only this time we talked afterwords and I even told him I was sorry about the last time. Then another like 2 weeks went by and I saw him again and I needed a place to stay(long story) and was in the area so I asked him if I could stay on his couch he said ok then said he was super tired and went to bed. Then in the morning we talked for like 2 and a half hours and seemed to get along great but he still never asked for my number or for me to do anything. Then now I haven't seen him in two weeks....I guess my question is do me and this guy have a chance at a relationship or at the very least a friendship? Cause like half the time he acts like he likes me then the other half of the time he doesn't. Should I ask him to do something? The only thing I know about him and relationships is that my friends say he doesn't want a girlfriend right now cause he's super busy. Please help I am going completely crazy and have gone into a depressed state...I just can't understand why he doesn't like me.
Amy

If you don't - don't have sex with him - and tell him that you'd like to date him and see where it goes. He might tell you that he doesn't have time for that, and if he does tell you that, then you have your answer - he likes to have fun with you on occassion, he just doesn't want to have a relationship with you.
In future, date first and only have sex with a man where it's clear that you are both wanting a relationship and both hoping that things are headed in that direction.
Peace - Pebbles
I think you should set your sights elsewhere if you are looking for a relationship.