I am thinking too much? Red Flags?
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|Mon, 06-24-2013 - 12:26pm|
Here is a bit of background long story made short. I have known him for 20 years. We have always had a crush on each other etc. Now later in our lives our paths have crossed again. It has been 3 months and we have been seeing each other everyday, (with very few exceptions in the beginning). We enjoy each others company etc. We have agreed to take one day at a time with no promises. We can both tell we care deeply for each other, though we have never really said we were dating or seeing each other exclusively. I don't think either one of us is quite ready for that step even though others say we are dating.
I usually don't make it past 3 months and I have been single for ions. I must say i cannot find anything I don't like about him...I really like this one, and feelings I didn't know still existed...I feel! I am not jealous of anything from his past...the past is past. He has alot of girls friends as I have alot of boy friends. There is one girl from his past that has the hots for him still. It is one sided, (he said he does not have those kinds of feelings for her anylonger and they have not dated for 25 years) but they are good friends. She is a very nice girl, I like her and we get along fine. He knows she wants more from him but he has not given her any indication that we are spending time together. He said he doesnt want to hurt her feelings and doesnt want to throw it in her face. Am I being a dork or is this something I should think about? Like I said I feel we see alot of each other but I don't really consider us dating per say. Your input is greatly appreciated.