i blew it....

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Registered: 10-09-2007
i blew it....
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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 8:39am

my ex and i dated for about 3 yrs.

yea. kinda. i was dating a guy for about 3 yrs. and all i could do was think about aaron. aaron was dating a girl at the time and all he could do was think about me. so now im single and so is aaron. aaron and i dated back in high school. and we've k

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 8:51am
I think you should let it go. He doesn't deserve to be with someone who cheated on him and I hope you understand why he stopped talking to you. Stop thinking about you and what you want, and let him do the right thing for himself.
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Registered: 10-09-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 9:10am
thanks...i guess ur right

yea. kinda. i was dating a guy for about 3 yrs. and all i could do was think about aaron. aaron was dating a girl at the time and all he could do was think about me. so now im single and so is aaron. aaron and i dated back in high school. and we've k

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Registered: 07-27-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 10:51am
i am going through a similar situation. my ex... although i dont like to refer to him as that because i dont think we are really over. I think that people make mistakes... you can either learn from them or beat yourself up for making them and never really get any where.
if you and your ex really had a special connection that is worth saving, then dont give up on him. you can give him space and time but that doesnt mean you have to get over him and get over your relationship. but in the mean time make yourself happy also, dont beat yourself up over it, just try to understand why you did it and learn from it.
time will help. i know its easier said but it really will
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 12:42pm

Welcome to the board rubberduckkeee,


You might want to give him some time to sort through what he feels.