I Can't Get NO SATISFACTION
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I Can't Get NO SATISFACTION
| Sat, 09-25-2004 - 1:52am |
I need to know, "Should I stay or should I go". I have been in a relationship for four months now with a man considerably younger than me. (I'm 37 he's 27). The big problem I am having is that in these four months, he has not been able to have sex with me until I orgasm. Most of the time, he can't maintain or achieve an erection. The times that he is able to (at least long enough for penetration), he will climax in less than 60 seconds. Now the part that has me confused is that he is a very sexually focused 27 year old man. He is attractive, sexy, and very affectionate towards me. He will approach me 3-5 times a day for sex, but the problem is that I've stopped responding to his advances. I feel like "What's the use?" He won't be able to satisfy me anyway. Now keep in mind that not even ONE time has he been able to sexually fullfil me. He is very sweet in the sense that he goes to great lengths to sexually satisfy me in other ways. But I need sex, and more that 15 seconds of it. The issue that has done the most damage would be his ED. He can get an erection with oral or manual stimulation, but as soon as we go to have sex, he loses it. The main position we have had zero luck with is "doggystyle" (my favorite). I should mention, that although I am very beautiful and fairly confident, I am overweight. I carry it well and I am very well proportioned with no facial fat, however, I believe this is an issue. He says, "No" but I read between the lines. Ok, so then why is he always coming on the me, wants sex, wants to make out, shows sexual interest and desire, then fails at being able to have good sex with me? What can we do about this? We love each other and want to find a solution.

Carrie