I think what she was trying to say was that she loves you as a friend. I could be wrong, but that is the feeling I get from reading your post. I don't think she wanted to hurt you though and that is why she said what she did.
i can't understand then why she seems to be giving me all the "signs" though. two weekends ago we stayed at a freind's house and we slept with my arm around her. To me that seems like there is more there than just friends. (sorry if I sound angry, i'm just in pain about trying to figure this all out.)
You don't sound like angry, just confused and that is understandable.
My taking from your post is that she gives you way more attention when she is single and not very much when she is in a relationship. It seems like she likes attention and when she can't get it from a boyfriend, than she comes looking to you for it.
well, right now, i'm just trying to give her some space like she wanted. it hurts a lot though (obviously) because i'm so used to seeing her almost everyday, she is my best friend after all. it scares me so much because it takes so much for me to fall for someone, and i'm afraid of loosing her, but i'm more afraid of knowing that this could be something great for the both of us (best friends usually make for the best relationships, right?) and not every being able to know what it would have been like and see it
Welcoem to the board,
I think what she was trying to say was that she loves you as a friend. I could be wrong, but that is the feeling I get from reading your post. I don't think she wanted to hurt you though and that is why she said what she did.
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Welcome to the board doctorlovenstein,
I agree with Coltara about her feeling love for you as a friend.
You don't sound like angry, just confused and that is understandable.
My taking from your post is that she gives you way more attention when she is single and not very much when she is in a relationship. It seems like she likes attention and when she can't get it from a boyfriend, than she comes looking to you for it.
I could be wrong, that is just my opinion.
Why don't you ask her what she meant?
Edited 9/21/2007 5:57 pm ET by cl-ctara19811
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Sounds like you'll be waiting in vain for this game-player--and whether intentionally or not, that's what she is.
What she's doing