I can't stop cheating!!
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I can't stop cheating!!
| Thu, 10-02-2008 - 8:49pm |
I am in a relationship with the loveliest guy I've ever met but he doesn't know that I cheat on him almost every opportunity I get.... I've known this

Welcome to the board lost.n.love,
I would recommend you find a good counselor and figure yourself out.
Dont for one second think you can't get caught. Cheaters tend to get sloppy, especially when they think they are not going to get caught. If/when you do, the pain you cause him (and yourself) will be something you can't even envision right now.
You should seek some counseling, your behavior is a form of addiction and you may have committment issues as well. None of this can be solved with the "right" guy coming along, or on your own. The hardest part is admitting there is a problem, and you have admitted that. Take the next step
It sounds to me as though you have a sex addiction and this should be addressed and handled with a professional. I strongly urge you to find a good therapist who is experienced in this area. You are in the grip of a compulsion and this compulsion can create many painful consequences in your life and in the life of your boyfriend. Along with it, there is lying, cheating, and many other ways in which your boyfriend will feel disrespected, and in which you are also disrespecting yourself. Again, this needs to be handled in person, with a professional therapist.
Best wishes,
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