I do not want to lose her

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Registered: 11-04-2007
I do not want to lose her
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Sun, 11-04-2007 - 8:35am

I am writing this here because I have no one to talk to.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 11:56am

It sounds like the two of you need to get yourselves into marriage counseling ASAP.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 12:45pm

Welcome to the board scaredinnj,


Sheri gave you some really good advice about how to find the right counselor for you. I hope you are able to do that.


Reading material to consider:


Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw


Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman


Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix


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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 11:55am

From your other post which may get deleted as a duplicate post, I wanted to pull this part:


::We went on a cruise this summer which I thought to be very fun and romantic. I felt the closest I have been to her in a long time. When I asked her about how she felt, she told me that it wasnt romantic at all.


Would she be willing to write out what she feels is romantic?