I don't know how to accomplish this?

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Registered: 07-03-2008
I don't know how to accomplish this?
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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 11:14pm

Hi,

I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year now and I really love her, but when we have sex she isn't completely satisfied. She does orgasm, whether through oral or penetration, but she isn't completely satisfied unless she is deeply penetrated and I am not large enough to do that. I don't think she will live me over this but I am nervous that she might eventually cheat on me or leave me just so she can get some how she wants it. I really hope someone has some advice on how to fix this.

Thanks

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 4:51am

Hi perstrainer, tricky situation here.

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 11:26am

"If so, have you tried different positions to maximise penetration?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 11:38am

For most women the central part of a relationship is feeling close, loved, cared for and understood by the man she is with. I suggest you discuss your feelings and fears with your partner. You can also see a sex therapist together and discover new positions and means of achieving the sexual satisfaction she desires. (Many times once again, this has nothing to do with size but with psychological factors).


All good wishes,

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 1:39pm

Welcome to the board perstrainer13,


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Registered: 07-03-2008
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 6:14pm
Thank you for the replies I really appreciate it. Yes she has told me about it and it wasn't in a bad like saying "You're to small" or something of like that, but she has mentioned that she likes deep penetration. I guess I haven't told her about my fears because I really don't want to lose her but I guess I should talk to her. I'm hoping for a chance to bring this up in the next couple days because there is no stress from work so hopefully I can resolve this. Thanks again for the ideas.